BOOK TO BUY: Rules of Civility: A Novel by Amor Towles

This year was very special. Especially regarding my reading habits. I just started my studies last year. Not that long ago school still had a lot to say about what books I read in my free time.

“2021 is the year I want to join a book club” was definitely not a resolution I had going into this year. It honestly didn’t even cross my mind. However, it all fell into place, when Ioana, writer of the “Mistral Spirit” blog created an online book club that helped bring together an awesome community.

Since then I joined Goodreads (everyone that knows me, knows that I won’t shut up about it) and already reached to complete my “2021 reading challenge” of 25 books.

I want to look back on my favourite reads of this year:

“if we only fell in love with people who were perfect for us, there wouldn’t be so much fuss about love in the first place.”

Rules of Civility by Amor Towles

Do you know those books that you finish reading where you think to yourself: “everybody should be reading that in their 20ies”, well this was one of them. It was when I finished reading and instantly thought about who’s birthday comes next so that I could gift them this book, that I knew it was the one, “my favourite of the year”.

I think Katey (the main character) really inspired me to live my young adult life to the fullest. She is such a strong female character, that of course has some insecurities (who doesn’t), but the way she gets what she wants by being brave, is really inducing.

I also read the TED talk “We should all be feminists” by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, which didn’t really give me new insights but strengthened my arguments in an everlasting exasperating “discussion” that is feminism. (I know it shouldn’t be up for discussion, but not everybody in this world got the memo)

Also, on my top five is “To Kill a Mockingbird” by Harper Lee. I read it really quickly in just 9 days. But for the time it was written (it’s really important to put that into perspective) it is such a progressive novel on racism and the moral nature of human beings. Quick side note: couldn’t decide on one favourite character, so I just picked them both (Atticus and Scout)

“i’d rather you shot at tin cans in the back yard, but i know you’ll go after birds. Shoot all the bluejays you want, if you can hit ’em, but always remember it’s a sin to kill a mockingbird.”

To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee

Some honorable mentions: “The Handmaid’s Tale” by Margaret Atwood. I won’t say that the series is better than the book BUT the series is so good (!) and loaded with stories and character development, that compared to that, the book was a little bit disappointing. However, that doesn’t take away from the greatness, and importance of the book. I still can’t believe it was written in 1985 (and I think she started writing it at least 20 years prior to that).

The Time Traveler’s Wife” by Audrey Niffenegger, I actually really liked this book. It shows the perspective of the person always waiting for the other one to her. My main takeaway was that we have to always remember that the future hasn’t been written yet.

And finally “Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Bronte. Again really liked the character of Jane and how independent and determined she was. However, I was a little disappointed by how the book ended.

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3 responses to “favourite reads of 2021”

  1. Ioana Avatar
    Ioana

    Julie, this is amazing! Can’t wait to follow along on your journey, and please keep writing – it’s so refreshing to read your thoughts on the books you’re reading.

    P.S. I also had the same thought after finishing Rules of Civility – it’s a must-read for anyone in their 20s! I’m a sucker for life story narratives with a twinge of the coming-of-age trope (like Forrest Gump and maybe It’s a Wonderful Life). ☺

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    1. julie Avatar
      julie

      Thank you for your nice words, I guess it was also a little bit our Vibely challenge on “a goal that we’ve been putting off”, that pushed me to finally take the steps. I hope that I will soon be getting the hang out of it. WordPress just has so many features, like widgets that I don’t even know of.
      You’ve really been such an inspiration to me these last few years! So actually, thank you for all your work and content (every time I now write the word “content” I have to think about Katey and how she always has to correct everyone saying her name wrong hahah)”. 🙂

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      1. Ioana Avatar
        Ioana

        That makes me so happy! I really strongly believe everyone should start a blog, as it’s such a great solo learning opportunity, at no cost. WordPress has some great forums which might be helpful to set up your widgets, though the appearance is less important than the content so don’t be discouraged!

        I also totally had a double-take whenever I saw the word “content” for a few months after reading the book. 😂

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